Is She Using You?Posted by: Emily | Posted on: October 17, 2011
Believe it or not some women are users. They may use you for a number of different things, such as money, a place to live, sex, or to make someone else jealous. This is not something that is uncommon, and poor guys fall for it all the time. It can really suck to find out that your girlfriend does not care as much as you do, and has just been using you until something better comes alone. It is better to find out before you get in too deep; you just need to know the signs to look for.
How do you tell if she is using you? The first sign that a girl is using you is if she is always gone. She may even ignore your phone calls or break plans at the last minute. If you are not seeing this girl for days at a time then there is a good chance she is using you unless she works weird hours you may want to reevaluate. Another thing that they will do is act like you are together when you are alone, but treat you like a pal in public. That is a huge sign that she is not all in the relationship. If she is all about herself and never listens to you when you want to talk or if she does not care about your problems over her own then she could be using you as well.
Once you realize that the signs are there, and then you need to get out before she gets tired and dumps you. You will have the upper hand if you blindside her and break up. She will either realize she has been stupid, or she will move on. Either way you are better off than being a pretty girl’s doormat.