Friends with His Pals; Bad for his Sex Life?Posted by: Emily | Posted on: May 18, 2012
You would not think that you being close to your guy’s friends would be a problem in your relationship, but surprisingly it is. Research has shown that a women being friends with her guy’s pals and sometimes being closer to them than he is can cause some problems in the bed room.
First of all you need to realize that it is not a jealousy thing. Usually it is a power thing, when he is trying to get into sex with you and has the fact that you are better friends with his friends in the back of his mind, it does something to his performance. He may not even realize he is letting it bother him, but it will.
Some girls take getting attention from their boyfriend’s pals too far. They may flirt shamelessly in front of them and try to make their boyfriends jealous. This will almost always backfire on them, but they can’t help themselves when they are getting a little attention. That being said, there is nothing wrong with being friends with his friends. Just understand that for some unknown physiological reason if they like you more he may have trouble performing in the bedroom.
You should have the same friends and you should get along with each other’s friends. The only way a relationship will work is if you share some of the same connections. This is not something that affects all men, but if you are having problems in the bedroom lately, then look at your relationship with his friends. Chances are that could be coming between you without either of you knowing it.