Why do guys like head? Many females believe that sex is the ultimate way to achieve an orgasm for males. THIS IS A LIE! Yes when males are young the only thing they want is sex for popularity reasons. This goes with the stereotype that if a guy is a virgin he is considered a loser.  Any man will tell you that the most powerful orgasm comes from oral sex.  Do not get me wrong, sex does feel good but to quote the famous Three 6 Mafia, “I love having sex, but I’d rather get some head.” With head there is a feeling of vulnerability were we as men are not in control and women have the power to do whatever they want to our dick.

With sex there is only one way to stimulate the dick to orgasm. With sex if a female is not experienced we the men have to do all the work and it gets redundant and tiring. After a while sex will start to become boring if this is all you are doing. It is just something amazing about watching a female treat a dick like an intimate object. The difference between a pussy and the mouth is that even though they are both warm, when the mouth catches air it gives a cooling sensation. Basically the male will be getting a cooling affect.

It also feels and looks good to a male to see their penis disappear in a female’s mouth. The combination with your dick disappearing and feeling you dick go down a women’s throat drives a man wide. When it comes to head there are multiple ways to stimulate the dick. Like sucking the head, going half way down, even going all the way to the base, and maybe even doing all three at the same time.

A lot of girls say that it is immature or annoying how much guys focus on breasts and behinds. I personally love when a guy cannot keep his hands off of me when he wants to have sex. My favorite part is for them to start with my chest. It feels so good when a guy sucks on my nipples.  I like how he plays with my boobs and squeezes them. When he bites them, it turns me on. I can feel my vagina tightening and loosening.

It is like it’s impatiently preparing to be penetrated. What I like next when my man is sucking on my nipples is when he sticks his fingers in my vagina. I like it when he moves his finger back and forth trying to find that spot that is going to make me moan and move my hips for more. I bite my lip to show him that this is what I want. It is like he has full control over my body with just two fingers and his tongue. How can someone have this much power over me? How can I be so vulnerable? This is not me; I am usually stronger than this. I know I cannot be the only one that feels this way right?

I pull at the covers because I cannot handle the amount of pleasure he is bring to my body. I grab his shoulder to bring him closer and at the first touch of our lips I grab his bottom lip and start sucking. He moves his whole body closer and I feel his extremely hard dick pressed against my thigh. He whispers “You want this dick baby?” and I slip into a sex coma as my body is pressed to orgasm over and over until he is done.

Jealousy has a way of sneaking up on you. One minute you might be happy and the next you are wondering why he is spending so much time at the gym. Is there some really fit blond bimbo hanging out in the gym, or worse is she his personal trainer?  These are things that can eat away at the brain of a normal girl when there is really no reason for her to worry. It is funny how our insecurities can create scenarios in our mind. The possibility of us being right is completely one in a million, but it doesn’t stop us from feeling it.

In some cases it doesn’t stop us from following him to the gym in dark glasses and a scarf around our heads. This is when it has gone too far, and you need to think long and hard about your actions. Do you trust your man? Furthermore, has he ever given you a reason not to? You need to look at your true feelings and quit this irrational behavior. If he isn’t cheating then this is going to be a hard thing for you to explain, especially if he catches you in the act of spying on him. If he is giving you vibes or you feel like you can’t trust him then you shouldn’t be with him in the first place.

Before you let the green eyed monster destroy your relationship then you need to see if he really is trustworthy. You need to open up the lines of communication. The worst thing you can do is hide your fears from him and not allow him to know why you are acting weird. If you aren’t careful your insane jealously will run away a great guy, and it will be simply because of your insecurities. Jealousy can trick you so make sure you take a breath and get the facts.

The way you can make a woman notice you is by turning on the sex appeal, but a lot of men do not know how to do that. Here are some tips you can follow to make sure you are turning it on wherever you go.  You should always put your best foot forward and your confidence level on full force. A lot of sex appeal is the confidence you have about yourself.

When you carry yourself with your shoulders back and your head held high you look like a badass. You will send out a wave to the females in the room that you are sure of yourself and ready to knock their socks off. In order to keep your sexual magnetism up there you can’t be shy. You are going to need to approach someone and offer to buy her a drink or take her for a round on the dance floor. You need to believe in your own confidence. Women can spot weak men, and they don’t like it. Don’t be a weak man or you will be sorry.

You may have a skewed view about what women think is sexy and it is hard to blame you because they like a lot of different things. Most women will agree they do not like a cocky ass or a shy guy. Place yourself somewhere in the middle and you should be alright. Being yourself is fine just make sure you are yourself with a little more swagger. You can fake being self assure, and that’s okay when you are trying to attract women. Now get out there, get confident, and get laid.

Ladies, have you ever wanted to try a new position with your lover? This one is perfect if you are just a little flexible, even if he is not. Be careful ladies with this type of position the first time will blow his mind and send him diving head first off the cliff into ecstasy faster than you could imagine.  This is a great position as a finisher after something more calm and standard like missionary or great for a surprise quickie. I recommend trying this the first few times safely in the middle of a bed.

Otherwise, it’s incredible in a sturdy armless chair. Start with him sitting upright with his legs stretched out on the bed. Just like you were riding cowgirl, straddle him. As you lower yourself slowly onto his penis with his hands guiding your hips, bend your knees and slide your knees forward so they are on the bed behind him, and your heels are by your own hips while you lean back so your back is against his thighs. Have him keep a tight hold on your hips so that he can pull you into him hard as he thrusts back into you. Your work is done here. Lay back and enjoy it. In this position he’ll do all the effort though he’ll be calling you a goddess for the next month.

As he thrusts, tell him to or hold your hand around his neck to guide him to lean forward so his mouth is on your breasts, and then ask him to lick and bite your nipples. This is a slow position that pulls your muscles in sensitive ways to electrocute your body in the most primal ways.  His whole body will be trembling by the time you’re done with him. Have fun!

So you’re into a friend of yours. How do you cross that line in a way that doesn’t lead to the most dreaded rejection ever, “I only see you as a friend.” And turn it into an incredible sexual long term relationship.  I reiterate long term here. If you want to bang a friend as a one night stand type deal, they are not your friends or you don’t care if they are or not. The best way into any sort of relationship is to ease into it. So your friend is smoking hot. She’s all you think about.  But you’ve seen her reject guys with the friend line more than once.

Would she reject you the same way if you get ballsy and ask her out on an official date or to jump into relationship status? Yes. Be there. Be there and be her boyfriend long before it’s ever spoken. Be the intimate friend. When she’s telling you how stressed out she is, start with a neck rub. Let your fingers slide under her shirt but only on her back and don’t push otherwise. Next time she says she’s stressed or tired or complains about her feet, grab a foot and massage. Massage for women is the fastest way to their hearts and in between the sheets. First it’s neck rubs. Before you’re done it is full body rubs with scented oil and candles in the bedroom.

To become a couple you don’t have to say the words. Work your way into that trusted position of friend and lover. Every woman wants their lover to be their best friend. Lover includes that word for them. She doesn’t want something to go wrong and lose you. So prove to her you are everything she needs and she has you already.

Threesome is the number one item on every guy’s bucket list. Evolution has cursed males. While women are made to be child bearers and receive our seed, we men are programed to reproduce.  Even in the animal kingdom males are known to have sex with multiple females but human males are the unlucky ones out of this bunch. In present time it is socially wrong to have sex with another female if you are in a committed relationship. Sometimes is it is even frowned upon to have sex with another female if you are friendly with another female. I would say that eighty present of males that have cheated could care less about the female they cheated with they were just looking for a nut. This is why most males still want to be with the women they are with and devalue the sex that they had with the other women.

This is probably how threesomes came about. I know you all know the saying “have your cake and eat it too” and I also know you did not know what it meant until now. The girlfriend/wife being the cake the support, the love, and the stability of a relationship. Then the mistress, so to speak, being what you eat the spur of the moment sweet piece that will not be around long.

To still be in a relationship with someone you truly care about and love them, but to be able to have someone that is just sex is a different animal. Some women are typically against having a threesome because of what they believe and what society has told them is wrong and right in a relationship. But I believe that if threesomes were more expectable that relationships and marriages would not end. For this to happen women would have to adapt the same feelings about sex. They would have to see sex more in a casual and physical way instead of associating it with love.

When you break up with someone you know it is going to be difficult. Most of the time the person you are breaking up with doesn’t know it’s coming, and is completely taken by surprise. The look of shock and hurt on their face can be hard to take. If you are the person being dumped it is worse, because you weren’t expecting it.  No matter the role you play in the breakup it is going to suck. Some people want to know what the rules of a breakup are. There aren’t any really set rules, but there are some suggestions we can give.

The first thing you should know is,do not prolong a breakup. There is never a good time to break up with someone. You should just do it instead of waiting for that perfect day. That day will never come, and you don’t want to stay unhappy any longer than you have to. If you break up with someone, let it go. You do not need to stay in touch to make sure someone is okay. That will just make it worse. You should never decide to sleep together for old time’s sake that is also never a good idea.  This causes a whole new set of problems not to mention old feelings can try and make you forget the reasons you broke up in the first place.

When you are getting out of a relationship either by choice or because the other person decided it was time you need to focus on you. You know you can look forward to a new relationship but you need to be alone for a bit to rediscover yourself without someone in your life. These are just a few things that will make surviving a break up a lot easier.

If you are in a relationship and are sexually active sex plays a big role, if you want to admit it or not, it does.  It’s not the most important part but it plays a role. Sex should never dictate your relationship. If you cannot even have a simple conversation with that person obviously something is not right.  If things only amount to sex without any communication, the relationship is dead. Stop reading and change something now!

The thing about sex is that you have to switch it up at times because the something will get boring. Different positions will help like doggie style, missionary, cowgirl, or revers cowgirl are just some of the many. There are positives and negatives to sex. The positives are that it can be seen as showing your love and your connection with each other on a different level and in a different aspect. Sex when used in a committed relationship is a whole other level of connection. Think about for the time that the penis is in the vagina you are connected as one.  The negatives are that it can ruin a relationship and it can also make things difficult as far as doing things that don’t involve sex. Many relationships have been ruined because of sex.

All the relationships that have been torn apart because one has cheated are all about the sex. People do not cheat because everything is great. Usually it is because the relationship that they are in is not pleasing them when it comes to sex. So they look for pleasure somewhere else. Sex is something special that really should not be through around like that but in today’s society that is the norm. Many people really do not understand the true meaning of potentially being connected as one during sex.

The perfect body massage. When a man or a woman wants a massage, the neck shoulders and feet are great. But that is not a body massage. A body massage starts at the tips of your fingers and slowly works down to the tips of your ticklish toes. It includes oils or hot lotions. You start rubbing slowly.  Maybe it’s a surprise for your significant other. Start rubbing their neck in slow circles with your thumbs and gently kneading their skin with your other digits lightly. Slowly work this until you have them stripped naked and are straddling their bare ass. Run your hands through their hair to start with, going slow and not missing an inch of skin as you massage their through their hair slowly.

Add the oil or lotion to that slight dip of skin in their neck and work it out to stretch the warm lube as far as you can work it. Slide your palm from their elbows up to their shoulders firmly and work their arms from one end to the other until they are putty in your fingers. Then massage their hands and fingers just as thoroughly, use more than enough oil or lotion to keep their every inch of skin slick to start with, but massage it in until there is barely anything left at all.

Work down the buttocks taking your time on each sweet cheek. Their thighs and calves. Nibble some toes as you massage their heels. Roll them over and start all over from the feet up. Explore their knees. There is a sensitive spot on the knee that tickles, thrills leaves chills and arouses by being licked just right. It doesn’t take much. Massage their chest in slow gentle circles. This is how to give a full-body rub.

The O word is a very important word and what all women are striving for whether they are sleeping with a partner they have been with for a long time or just the flavor of the week. It is important for men to understand how a woman reaches orgasm in order to properly give them one.  The way a woman gets off is pretty basic but there are some men that don’t even know how they happen. When a woman’s clitoris is filled with blood she gets a lady boner. The clitoris is made of the same type of skin as the foreskin as the male sex organ. A woman will only reach orgasm if she is stimulated before sexual intercourse. This is one of the reasons foreplay is so important when you are trying to sexually satisfy a woman.

The whole area is very sensitive so once stimulated orgasm can be reached in a number of different ways. This is something that women might enjoy you experimenting with both manual and oral stimulation. Intercourse is not enough to bring a woman to orgasm; they need other stimulation as well. This is one of the reasons that so many sex toys have devices and features for clitoral stimulation. Remember that you must warm the lady up before you take her for a ride, much like a cold motor.

If your woman wants to show you what she likes, let her. A woman often knows the type of stimulation they need and how they like it to be done. It is okay to ask your lady to show you what she does when she pleasures herself in order to learn what she likes and what she doesn’t. This is another reason that you should introduce sex toys into the bedroom to learn what your woman enjoys and what you yourself enjoy.