Okay lets start here: Don’t think of it as a job. It shouldn’t be a chore and with the right mood and techniques, oral sex can satisfy you and your partner. Oh, and no blowing either!
Careful With Those Teeth!
There are many wrong ways to give a blow job, but this tops the list. A knick or a grind with your gnashes can cause way more pain than pleasure and kill the whole vibe, boner and all, in a flash.
Use Your Tongue
A kiss with no tongue is just uninspiring, so apply the same rule to blow jobs. Use your tongue to tease and stimulate the penis’s most sensitive areas - the tip, the testicles and the perineum – the secret spot between the testicles and the anus.
Use Your Hands
Men like to masturbate, they do it a lot when you’re not around. So do what he likes. Use your hand and mouth at the same time as you go up and down, it will have him wanting to shoot his load in no time.
Use Liquids And Sauces
Spice things up with your partner and try a few party tricks – take a mouthful of warm tea, swill it around your mouth, swallow, then take your man’s penis into your mouth for 20 seconds and suck. Then do the exact same procedure with a mouthful of cold water. The difference in hot and cold will have him climbing the wall. You can also try champagne, fizzy water, mint, ice cubes and ice cream for extra unexpected sensations.
Your man’s pleasure level will be increased if he thinks its not all about him. He wants to feel that you are enjoying the experience as well, so let out some pleasurable moans and groans as you suck, it will drive him wild.
Another way of letting your man know you are enjoying pleasuring him is by increasing your amount of saliva. Make that dick messy and slippery, it will also increase the lubrication and enable a quicker motion up and down when its time to make him cum. Gagging is also a good way to increase the saliva, it will also make him feel like his dick is so big you are choking on it.
Remember the Testicles
Men love having their balls licked and sucked too. Don’t make this a routine, rotate the action from the shaft and penis to the balls. Also cupping them when you suck will increase pleasure.
To Swallow or Not To Swallow
If you ask most men, they will want you to swallow, or at least let them ejaculate in your mouth. If you find the thought of swallowing sperm or even having it in your mouth revolting, let him know before you start. But be prepared, some men will try not to let you know when they are about to cum, just so they will be able to ejaculate in your mouth. Always have tissues handy in any event. If you don’t wish to take it in the mouth, offer for him to cum on your breasts, belly or ass as an alternative.